徐灿，字湘蘋，又字明霞、明深，江苏吴县（今苏州市吴中区、相城区）人。

陈之遴继配。

幼颖悟，通书史。

陈之遴两次流徙，均曾随行。

康熙十年（1671），奉旨归之遴之骨。

晚年学佛，更号紫?

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早年雅好吟咏，尤喜为词。

被词人陈维崧誉为南宋后闺秀第一。

有 拙政园诗馀　 拙政园诗集　。

徐灿 蝶恋花每寄书素庵不到有感　频寄锦书鸿不去。

怕近黄昏，帘幕深深处。

一寸横波愁几许，啼痕点点成红雨。

倚遍阑干无意绪。

闲理余香，独自谁为语。

尽日恹恹如梦里，斜阳一瞬人千里。

Die lian hua:Stirred by the Frequent Loss of My Letters to Su’an Xu CanOften I send brocade letters, but the wild goose fails to go;I fear the creeping of duskInto the depths of my curtains.

How much sadness is there in a single look?

Specks of tear stains form a shower of rouge.

I’ve leaned long over the railing, but remain listless;Casually I trim the leftover incenseAll by myself, with whom can I speak?

Through the day I feel weary as in a dream;A flash of the setting sun and I’m a thousand miles away.

【双语诗歌翻译|徐灿-蝶恋花·每寄书素庵不到有感　查看网站：[db:时间]】